Feel Invisible? Flip the Script.

Have you ever poured your heart into something…

Your work.
Your ideas.
Your kindness.
Your content.

Only to feel like no one noticed?
No feedback. No encouragement. No response.
Just silence.

It’s easy to feel invisible in a noisy world.
You show up. You give your best. You stay consistent.
And still, you feel unseen, uncelebrated, maybe even undervalued.

But before you let bitterness take root or weariness sink in, here’s a perspective that’s changed my life—and it just might change yours:

What if you gave what you wish others gave to you?

Affirmation.
Support.
Visibility.
Encouragement.
Belief.

The Power of Giving When It’s Hard

Let’s be honest—giving when you feel dry feels counterintuitive. It feels unfair.

But Scripture offers a radical reframe:

📖 “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” — Acts 20:35
📖 “Do to others as you would have them do to you.” — Luke 6:31

We’re wired to give—not because we want something in return, but because giving activates a higher purpose.
Giving is impact. Giving is leadership.
Giving is a declaration: I know who I am and what I carry.

And yes, sometimes it feels like people are just taking. You give and give and wonder—“Will I have anything left for tomorrow?”

But here’s a truth I live by:

No one was created to successfully empty an ocean.
And you are a walking ocean.

You’re filled with divine grace, wisdom, creativity, solutions, love, and presence.
You pour out—but you never run dry.
You serve—but you’re never diminished.
Why? Because your source is divine. And divine supply never depletes.

The Reality: Most People Feel Unseen

A Gallup workplace study found that only 1 in 3 employees strongly agree they’ve received recognition or praise in the past week.
That’s not just a statistic—it’s a mirror.
People are starving for acknowledgment. They’re showing up, just like you, and feeling unseen.

So what if you became the one who sees others?
The one who starts the chain reaction?
The one who gives generously what others crave silently?

It starts with you.

Give From the Overflow

When you celebrate others, offer sincere encouragement, or engage with someone’s work—you're not losing anything.

You're sowing seeds.

And seeds always bring harvests.

Sometimes slowly. Sometimes suddenly.
But always surely.

So keep giving value.
Keep showing up.
Keep becoming.
Because you’re not just giving—you’re growing.

And yes—kings will gather around your table. Not because you shouted the loudest, but because your life, your words, and your work are dripping with unignorable impact.

This Is Your Reminder:

You’re not invisible.
You’re not empty.
You’re not too late.

You’re evolving. You’re rising. You’re ready.

And someone out there needs exactly what you carry.

Let’s Flip the Script

Who can you affirm today?
Where can you give a little more—without needing recognition in return?

💬 I’d love to hear in the comments: What’s one way you can give what you wish to receive this week?

Let’s shift the energy from waiting… to giving. From hiding… to leading.
From empty… to ocean.

#KeepGiving #LiveOnPurpose #FaithAndLeadership #KingdomImpact #EmotionalIntelligence

Mary Ewere - 2025

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