Everyone Is Becoming: Let Your Words Build, Not Break

🌍💡 Truth Reminder: Everyone is doing their best to become who they’re meant to be.

Maybe not perfectly.
Maybe not how you would.
But they’re trying—with the tools, trauma, knowledge, or grace they have at the moment.

So, before you call someone out with a tone that tears instead of teaches, pause and ask:
👉 Am I correcting them because I care—or just criticizing because I can?

💥 Accountability Without Arrogance

Let’s be clear: Correction is not wrong. Discernment is vital.
But how we deliver it can either rescue or ruin.

Some hide behind a warped idea of “not judging,” allowing dysfunction to grow unchecked. Others swing to the opposite extreme—rebuking without relationship, shaming without support.

🔑 The answer is not silence. The answer is wisdom, compassion, and clarity.

🗣️ Say the truth—but say it with grace.
Correct someone—but do it from love, not pride.
Set a standard—but don’t forget their story.

🚫 The Impostor Label Isn’t Always Just

I often hear people branding others as “impostors.” But what if they’re not faking it—just figuring it out?

Most people aren’t pretending. They’re progressing.

They're navigating a noisy world with silent battles, doing their best with what they’ve seen, survived, or understood. Could it be that what they need is not your disapproval but your discernment, mentorship, or presence?

📊 Studies show that 70% of people experience impostor syndrome, and many suffer in silence because they fear the next voice they hear will not help—but harm.

🧠 Mind the Mental Toll

Suicidal thoughts often stem from feelings of worthlessness, rejection, or deep internal isolation. According to the World Health Organization, over 700,000 people die by suicide each year—many of them just needed one person to see them with compassion, not condemnation.

You may not be able to change the world,
But you can change the way someone sees themselves after talking to you.

🙌 So, What Should We Do Instead?

✔️ Speak the truth—but make it healing
✔️ Correct when needed—but clothe it in humility
✔️ Offer counsel—not control
✔️ Uplift those on the edge—not push them further
✔️ Be the hand that steadies—not the voice that shames

Because life isn’t over for them, and you’re not the ultimate measure.
Your rebuke should heal, not humiliate.
Your voice should build, not break.

💬 Final Thought

There’s a better way to hold people accountable—one that reflects truth, grace, and a genuine desire to see them thrive.

📢 Let’s stop labeling people without context.
🛠️ Let’s correct with care, not condemnation.
🕊️ Let’s be the difference between someone's breakdown and their breakthrough.

Everyone is becoming. Be kind. Be firm. Be gracious. Be light.

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Mary Ewere - 2025

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